Joan & Mario DePalma of Yonkers, will be married 58 years on July 11, 2011! According to Joan, they have been very good years:
We met one Sunday morning, when we were leaving the Church after Mass. Mario approached me and introduced himself and ask if I was no longer taking the bus. I was not aware that he had noticed me, when I waited for the bus in the morning. I explained that I was now taking an earlier bus. A few days later he was waiting at the bus stop in his car and offered to drive me to the train station. I accepted and on the way he asked me to go out with him. I, again, accepted and on our first date we played miniature golf. Fourteen months later we were married on July 11th at the same church, St. Joseph’s in Yonkers, where we met.
We had eight children and raised seven. Our son, Jeffrey, passed away at 23 months of age. It was sometimes difficult raising a large family, but it was never dull and there was always a lot of fun. We now have seventeen grandchildren and two granddaughters-in -law. They are our joy.
Mario retired two years ago and now volunteers at his former place of business. I returned to work 34 years ago and still work four days a week. We enjoy traveling, going out to dinner but our greatest enjoyment is when we are watching one of our grandchildren play baseball or basketball. It is also a pleasure to baby sit for the younger ones.
Our only suggestion for young couples getting married is when problems occur just remember all the good things about your spouse, why you married them and that you loved them.